Those we love & we are most comfortable with, we say stuff we should not always say.
Sometimes when you are having a conversation, one person says something and immediately - we realize... 'It' should not have been said - but too late.
Including the person who said it - realizes. Oh well.
I am learning to have less conversations.
I do other things that keep me positive! READ! SPEND alone - quiet time! Draw, paint FB a tiny bit, read & write snail mail! Paper Mache bluejays & bookmarks today!
I do much - I do WHAT ever it takes!
I don't do cable television, the news or even newspapers anymore.
I will select online what I choose to be educated on, not believe just what other choose to have us Learn. I DO what ever it takes and sometimes that means taking measures to do less things too!
I have spoke with Norm and Storm and told them I don't want to hang around with people anymore. lol
I plan on spending this winter PAINTING, bird watching, drawing, cartooning, and keeping in contact with people by e mail alone, they get it.
More to myself and focusing on my art & family and our little nest.
I still have days where I feel those closest to me have no clue what I am dealing with even thought then can 'visually' see it. & they can't, who could?
WE are NOT all the same, we do NOT all handle things the same, this is what makes life the lesson. Do what ever you must.
If NO ONE understands - just keep doing what you need to do to keep going.