Don't teach them to post nasty remarks on strangers pages... I read how young girls are becoming meaner at younger ages - in nursery school. Where the heck do you think they learn it? Are they listening to mean moms? Watching mean moms sitting beside mom - watching some HorribleHousewife show? In nursery school?!
Why would anyone watch these shows where women backstab, fight, argue, alienate other women? Who wants to aspire to this? What do you take away from that sort of TV?
Mean baby girls learn from BIG mean Girls.
I know when I pay attention to mean women, I can start to feel a little mean myself...
I'd rather paint.
Mean girls/women don't have to say anything- some are incredibly manipulative - they do it other ways.. I know a few, we all do. I just listened to a pod cast- the 'new thing' is to 'alienate people online' - TRY to embarrass them on social media - try to remember it all stems from fear, hate & jealousy.
This morning I was reminded how serious it all can be when I read this story:
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/jeremy-quaile-knightley-dog-death-calgary-1.4602948 It's sad all around.. there is a common demonator- ALCOHOL.
Trolls alienate with little words here and there, spread hate & lies... just like in grade school - if you don't belong to their 'little Clique', follow their rules, kiss their ass = you are worthless - little spoiled brats turn into middle school bitches who grow up to be first class c*nts. Everyone talks about 'how bad men are' - women can be equals in every way.
Imagine how hard it is for little girls NOW... as much as I as 'an adult' try to ignore and keep positive.... stuff still gets to me sometimes. It hurts at ANY age. Men & women.
What do you do? Start to agree with what you don't agree with? Feel sorry for yourself? Hash it out with them on Facebook- for many to watch with few understanding.
Teach your little girls:
Turn off the petty bullshit & turn in and turn on your talents!
When they can't hurt them with words they try to alienate & 'Black list' ... Brendan Frazer experienced the same ordeal, first sexually abused then black listed. I HOPE more men talk about #metoo. A tag team black listed me - an American & Canadian - 2 Cannabis (self proclaimed) Queens. At first I was confused & hurt.. why? Now.. who cares? Phhhbbt. Frankly after watching these women the past 7 years & hearing from many about their behind the scenes antics - they are the last people I would want to socialize with or be associated with in real life. I see them no longer as they represent themselves to others - NOW, I see them how they truly appear & have presented themselves to me.
DELETE negative comments on your social media page. DELET/BLOCK nasty people.
I don't get many negative comments thankfully, but I've seen many on friends pages- from strangers who don't even know them. Delete them. Quick, press a button gone. Just like they should be - why give them any satisfaction of spreading anger & hate with nothing better to do in this life - they are truly the saddest & angriest.
Please take the time to comment something truly positive & nice today on social media,
I look for other artist - I know a little encouragement goes a long way. It's easy.
Focus on your gift & keep improving, be in your bliss, enjoy your day.
Let nasty continue to Focus on nasty= mean gets nastier, uglier, two in particular have gone down hill the past few years... who do they have to blame? Themselves.
I don't know how I would handle if I had a little girl who related feeling like this so early - I would teller to get use to it because it'g going to happen to her, her entire life & then I'd teach her to paint or garden, sew...
I'm painting some POSITIVE, beautiful women- women who raise up and encourage on this planet - who help each other & help the planet. Actually, today I'm painting a monkey in space - to promote DARK week. :)
I just found out this amazing ICON, this incredible woman is in Toronto - 'sold out'.. I wish I could see her so much.. instead I'll honour & thank her with a painting.
You are created to create!
Let the haters hate.
With TLC & THC