What is it with men?! The moment I put on a bikini top - watch out! Norm is all hands - suddenly he sees it as change to 'cop a feel'. 9 times out of 10 - I'm not as thrilled as he is about the groping. O.k. to be fair... Maybe one time in 30.. I 'might be o.k. with it.'lol
You see, I did not ask for his advances. All I did was put on a Bikini top.
Then why put on the bikinitop you might ask?
Because I am HOT, and I don't mean as in in my 20's with boobs still higher up.
Hot as In: I love to feel the sun on my body. My body needs it also, literally - there is nothing that clears up psoriasis like sunshine!
Gods Medicine again! ;)
Back to groping. I'm hot, I like to wear a bikini. I'm not putting it on to feel sexy these days.
it is cool gardening - sweaty boobs are not fun and can lead to terrible rashes.
Don't get me wrong - by most standards - my body is not so bad, and I can pull off a bikini top - well by fewer standards since I'm 51. Who cares? Not me.
I am no longer there. My 'mind set' is not what it was... my body is not the priority it was in the ways it was. It does get a little annoying somedays. I don't know many who appreciate being loved for the body alone that they appear to be. In fairness to Norm - when he did it - the first few years, perhaps I giggled, I know a few times it turned into playful banter and possibly more - after 23 years? The game like most, gets a little boring. Usually, I just let him grope and continue on. It's not such a big deal...
The bigger deal is when women put on clothing that reveals a little more skin that normal and men think it means they can GROPE. It does not.
A women's body is her own and if a man looking at any woman - or visa versa (yet fewer men would complain - in all reality) and then think that they have permission to judge, touch, or worse - they are wrong. They are the ones experiencing a loss of control.
If I had a daughter - I'd try to influence her to dress in a way that shows her soul/self creative being. You have to start young - not focus on the clothing but to focus on the being - teach them they are so much more than a body and they will be. A body just gets us where we are- I'm taking my body now into the painting groom and my mind will direct it to paint! ;)
Most girlfriends looked at this and all laughed - it's true. It made me laugh.
Is it funny or not? Think about it. What message do WE send out?
Teach only love.
Have Faith! <>< xox